Public Speaking Course:
Recently at the National Speakers Association convention I was talking to some other presenters
and learned some more
tips to add to my public speaking course.
John Meluso spent some time listening to me and noted that I was not showing
any vulnerability to the audience near the start of my presentation.
I would just roll along and then tell a signature story at the END of my
talk that bared everything. John, showed me that being the
take charge kind of presenter that I am, I have probably been alienating many of the
more sensitive audience members. Once alienated, those audience member
don't hear you anymore.
It is likely that right from the start my style ran over them and caused
them to run for cover, therefore making it very hard to connect with
Because of John's astute observation, when I'm speaking I will change
the order of some of my material to better connect with more sensitive
Having grown up not far from Pittsburgh in Washington, Pennsylvania,
and having my brains battered playing lineman in football at school
at West Virginia U, I can still recall how an old boy coal miner friend
of mine once told me, 'The schoolhouse door is always open.'
The vulnerability is to admit that not always can we say "Our
minds be always open".
John, I want to thank you for reminding me that as we master all we
learned from our public speaking course, always and in all ways, we all can get better.